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Closure From A Liar: Just Stop
Seriously, Just Get It Out Your Head
Way too many people who have gone or currently going through a breakup want something.
And that something is “closure”. Sorry, but seeking closure is probably not a good thing, especially if you’re trying to get “closure” from a liar.
There are way too many cons than pros when it comes to seeking out closure from someone who has lied to you. It’s simply not a good idea.
Why isn’t it a good idea?
Well, because you’re trying to seek closure from a liar. If you caught a person in one lie, then there are probably many other lies that you haven’t found out about.
Remember, there’s a difference between being honest after doing something wrong, and just lying and only being honest after being caught out.
A person who has lied to you is not going to give you real authentic closure. I’m sorry to break this to you, but liars lie; It’s what they do best.
What To Do Instead
Instead of seeking closure from a liar, you should do these three things:
1. Block Them
Block them on everything from your phone (text, email etc. . .). social media, and anything else you can think of. Block them so…